# 60 wedding jitters?

i'm having it now .. or at least .. i THINK i have it now.

i always want to marry him. and i know i love him so much. but sometimes .. i cant avoid myself from thinking .. am i going to get married? am i able to become a good wife? am i ready for the marriage life? baaahhh!

sometimes it killing me to think such things. and to overcome this, i've googled a few articles related on it :

"After so many years of ups and downs in your relationship this is what it’s all about. You and him taking a vow of endless togetherness. Sealing the deal. With all this salad of emotions, you get to question if you’re doing the right thing. Maybe you’re one of those girls who want what they cannot have and now that it’s in their reach, you don’t want it anymore.

You are about to take a humongous step in your life, with unknown consequences and measures. If you don’t feel anxious about that then that is not normal. Even the most inlove and the most riches couple feel wedding jitters before they tie the knot. So keep that in mind that what you’re feeling is customary and you have nothing to worry about.

Another helpful way in dealing with your wedding jitters is to talk to friends about it, especially recently married friends. Seeing your married friend’s view of wedding jitters and married life can surely calm you down. Talking to your partner about your wedding jitters may not be a good idea because he may be in the same exact dilemma.

Instead write down in a piece of paper the great things about your partner. Write down the most unforgettable and most romantic times you had together. After that, write down all your fears and worries. Jotting down those stuff can make you see the whole picture."

taken from here and here.

note. 56 days to go. arrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhh!